Lessons from homily

Something that was shared today and I thought it makes good sharing.

1. Love is a free choice and we all had that freedom; love cannot be forced.
God has chosen Mary to be the mother of Jesus and Mary chose to accept the Lord's choice. Likewise, despite what actions we took to show our love to that someone; it might not be reciprocate, because the other party also has that freedom of choice to accept or deny that love.

2. Different forms of love.
Expression of love may be different but the quality is the same. A husband might not show his love to the wife by doing the loving things that he used to do; showing affection publicly, giving gifts, etc. He might have shown it through other means, being concern about the family welfare - whether there's enough money for the family, education for the children, etc. Likewise, a wife might show concern by taking good care of the children, keeping the home clean and tidy. Whichever happens, do not think that your partner does not love you. Take the pro active role of showing your love, your appreciation to your spouse.